“Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.”
There are so many ways in which we try to change our minds or alter our beliefs. But behaving strong and being strong are two different things. Having a soft, undefended front comes from doing the work to understand what we are defending against. Over time I’ve learned that the role that the nervous system takes in pattern creation is profound.
Read MoreBelieving in the profound internal pilgrimage we can span in our healing when we uncover what is in the way of full self-expression sexually, sensually, and relationally, Jaime is a Somatica Method Practitioner, focusing on sexual and sensual embodiment as a portal for becoming more fully ourselves. She is also a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP), integrating a deep understanding of the way that trauma impacts relationship and she works with the body's nervous system in support of a more balanced connection to self and others. She anchors her work in an alchemy of vulnerability, compassion, and playfulness. Jaime coaches couples in varying relationship styles, is LGBTQ+, and leads with curiosity and authenticity. She offers weekly sessions and immersion work where couples come to do weekend intensives with her privately.
She’s a writer, a mischievous adventurer, and committed to staying on the path of self-discovery next to her clients. Her private practice in Nevada City, CA, is built out of a wealth of love and nestled into her life with her three beautiful grown children, who are her biggest teachers. Not to mention her diva of a dog, her deliciously inspiring community of friends and family, and her ten acres of land that keeps her fingernails dirty and her heart full. Follow her on IG at jaimewilliams.intimacycoach or contact her at desireintimacylove@gmail.com.
There are so many ways in which we try to change our minds or alter our beliefs. But behaving strong and being strong are two different things. Having a soft, undefended front comes from doing the work to understand what we are defending against. Over time I’ve learned that the role that the nervous system takes in pattern creation is profound.
Couples worry that conflict, especially extended conflict, heads them in an unsurvivable direction. Conflict is not the upending problem. Being positioned and resigned is. If in the midst of conflict, we are willing to breathe, to reflect, to communicate even the harder truths, we are stepping onto the luscious path of deepening our relationships. When we listen to our beloved with a keen desire to understand, to experience empathy, and to really receive the presence of our partner, then we run the chances of growing closer to one another rather than farther away. When we verbally express what part we have played in the conflict, even if it was not our intent to do so…then the relationship has the kind of fortitude that will nourish deep and abiding love.
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Jaime Williams | Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, Somatic Experiencing Practioner, Bodytalk practitioner and massage therapist .
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Sex and Relationship Coaching is not psychotherapy. I am not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, licensed social worker or licensed marriage and family therapist, and I do not offer therapy, psychotherapy or medical advice.
To be received fully is a gift that is immeasurable. It is not how things go in so many relationships. As I bend my body in your direction, physically ache, and shift precariously and beautifully between the gentle miracle and magical science of restoration through donation and transplant, I will metabolize an experience of love. What I imagine, is that you will receive and live fully with parts of me all hemmed inside of you. And I will become more of myself because of you.